Another Year in the Life

I'm a twenty something associate pastor at a Baptist church, newly married who loves to share my narrative with others according to my friends. I find joy in writing even though I readily admit that I'm a horrible speller (pardon my errors). Come journey through my reflections of life, work and faith. This year is bound to be interesting, I know!

Monday, December 24, 2007

Christmas Eve

It is probably something that you never think of: what a pastor does or feels on Christmas. If you aren't clergy, it is not as if your life is easy during the days surrounding Christmas. There are presents to buy and wrap, meals to cook, and company to welcome. But, what DOES a pastor do on Christmas Eve? Surely they just show up to church like other religious folks.

Wrong.

Let me share my day with you:

9:00 Wake up (I tried to sleep late knowing what the day would hold)
10:00 On my way to church
10:30 Make Christmas ornaments as an example of a Christmas craft for the Families Christmas Eve Service to be held later in the day
11:00 Stuff and decorate Christmas bags to give to the families who would attend the service
12:00 Lunch with a pastor friend who was also working on Christmas Eve by visiting shut-ins in the neighborhood of my church
1:00 Work on the Stewardship brochure for the church campaign in January. (It needed to be done as soon as possible!). Try to answer emails that I didn't have time for over the weekend, only to find that the Internet is down for the week at church... a bummer!
3:00 Begin setting up for the Families Service
3:15 Decorate the Christmas Tree in the Youth Ministry Center where the service will be. (The tree somehow didn't get decorated this year before today! The youth were to do it two weeks ago but the tree fell on one of them and had to have surgery before it could be decorated).
4:00 Create Sign-in list for the families who will attend the service and put together the welcome table
4:45 Families begin arriving. I try to take a few pictures of the service, while trying to teach the older children the craft and greet guests too. It's crazy! There are volunteers there to help but it takes a few minutes to explain to them what to do.
5:10 The program part of the Families service begins. I lead welcome, telling of the Christmas story and the offering time.
5:45. The Children and their parents have left the church happy! (We had tons of visitors- yeah!). The clean-up process begins. Sequins are everywhere from the craft. I'm digging them out of the carpet.
6:00 I grab a frozen meal to eat in the church freezer before the next service begins.
6:15 I talk with some deacons about the Christmas cookie community project that will begin after the 7:00 service is over.
6:30 I make sure the offering collected at the 5:00 service is in a safe place and greet youth who arrive joyfully in my office. I look for missing music. I unlock doors of rooms deacons need to get into. I try to greet guests as I see them.
6:50 Quick prayer with the other pastors before the service begins
7:10 I lead the call to worship and the passing of the peace.
7:35 I'm giving my third pastoral prayer since Sunday.
7:45 Communion serving time! Gotta love the Baptist grape juice.
8:15 Passing the light of my candle throughout the congregation as they sing Silent Night (but my candle is so old and the flame goes out frequently. I have to trade candles with a congregation member to finish my task).
8:45 I'm almost walking out of the building until someone wants to talk.
9:10 I'm actually leaving work and telling my husband about my day on the phone in the car going home!

But, I've tried to remind myself that this is what being a pastor is all about. You work when many others do not. Weird hours, weird days, weird times of the year-- it is just what the calling means. However, we as pastors don't want to be like everyone else and spend time with our families and friends as you do. It is sad when we have to work when you are home or get to travel to be with the ones who you love. I'm hoping to have some time to chill later on this week! Maybe there is rest in sight.

Happy Christmas Eve to you all.

4 Comments:

  • At 12:52 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    It sounds like your church could benefit from volunteer teams. I don't think you really have to do all that stuff by yourself.

     
  • At 2:05 PM , Blogger Musings said...

    Well, we are understaffed right now in terms of pastors and it was Christmas Eve... no one really wanted to help.
    You are right, I wish I had more help!

     
  • At 1:54 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    So what about this question...if nobody is willing to help make things happen, why should staff make it happen? I'm really serious about this. For example, if no one is willing to step up and organize Christmas flowers for the sanctuary, then just let it go. Either someone will step up next time or it wasn't that important in the first place. I've been thinking a lot, over the past few years, about the dilemma of staff-led ministry. Don't we profess to all be ministers together? What does it look like when we actually practice that?

     
  • At 2:40 PM , Blogger Chuck Warnock said...

    Dear Musings, I was working Christmas Eve, too. I'm the solo pastor of a small town church, so a lot falls on my plate. Plus, I'm a control-freak, nobody-can-do-it-as-well-as-I-can person. I'm not proud of that, but that's how I'm wired. Anyway, let some stuff go. I practice a "do what is next" approach to ministry. Example: I would not have done anything on the stewardship brochure. Printers were closed, nothing was really going to happen with that until after Jan 2, so I would have put that off. Also, if the youth tree doesn't get decorated, we rejoice in the greening of the holiday (or some other blatant spin). Anyway, as they said in the Godfather, "This is the work we have chosen." Not for the same reasons, but it is what it is. The result -- Debbie and I were so busy we both decided not to give each other gifts until after Christmas when we can devote some time and thought to them. But, we've been married a long time, so I would not necessarily recommend this strategy to newly weds. I hope you found some time to sit and be still during some part of Christmastide, even if it wasn't on Christmas Eve or even Christmas Day. After all, we represent the God who is among us all. Grace and peace. Chuck

     

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